Dating guy ive liked so this three years
So he stops calling you to ask you out on dates and starts asking you to come over and watch football with the guys. Chances are, if you’re still reading this, you’re probably a catch. I know this is hard to believe, but it’s possible you said something that just didn’t sit right with him.
The fact of the matter is, he may just have chosen one of the other girls.It could also be that he’s in pursuit of an elusive girl or one who keeps turning him down. ), even if you’ve said yes to him and she’s said no, he might decide he wants to go after the girl who said no…even if it’s just to see where it goes. He’s just into the chase – Some men are simply at a point in their lives (generally around ages 25 – 30, but it could be a man of any age), where they’re only interested in the pursuit of a woman.They have no desire to actually get into a relationship.And to this man who disappears on you, good riddance! He put you in the friend zone – Maybe you’ve gone out a few times with an old friend or were introduced to a friend of a friend. ) However, it could be that even though you think you’re a great match, he thinks you’re the perfect best friend material. A guy you’ve gone out with a few times, who seems totally into you, suddenly disappears completely.You’re probably wondering why that guy seems to have fallen off Planet Earth.
You start with justifications like: “Well, he did say next week was going to be super busy…” and “He’s probably working really hard” or “Didn’t he say he was going out of town this weekend?
” Most of the time in these situations, we’re given absolutely no reason for this Casper act…
So, for your mental clarity, here are a few common reasons this might be happening: 1.
Work is just too important right now – Let’s face it: Sometimes a guy is going to choose his work (and his financial security) over love. A guy who wants at some point in his life to become a “boyfriend material” man is going to focus on his goals, ambitions, and career.
Unfortunately for you, if you’ve met him at this point in his life, you might be out of luck in the man-being-present department. He’s dating a few other girls in his search for “the one” – When you meet a guy on a dating site, in a bar, at a coffeeshop, or on a run, you never know where they are exactly in their dating life.
He could be pursuing more than one girl (more than likely) while he is pursuing you.